Make the attitude of Christ the attitude in your Relationship.

For instance, Christ is washing his church with the water of the word.

This implies that, speak to each others what you desire to see in each other lives.

Words are powerful.

Yes! You will have disagreement.

Who is right or wrong doesn't matter. It is peace with each others that matters.

Who takes the step for resolution doesn't matter. Our cherishing each others is what matters.

Don't try to proof anything to your Relationship partner. It's a low mentality.

Have seen ladies tell me so many times, *"sir, I will call him. I want him to miss me"*

*So, my doing that, you will now go and use it to win award of the year for people doing such?*If you are angry at what your Relationship partner did to you. At the moment when it's boiling in you, don't talk. If you do, you will say words you don't really mean to say. And you will regret it later.

Wait till you are cool.

Then, discuss it.

That's the attitude of Christ.

Anytime any members of his body misbehave, he won't come with vengeance and anger. He will be his Spirit come in a way that will break such a fellow for repentance.

Do so too.