. Proverbs 12:18 Some people make cutting remarks, but the words of the wise bring healing.*

Never get married to someone who don't know how to talk, someone who will always wash u down when ever you are in an encounter with him or her, most times some people can say things out of anger, I understand, but is the person the type that quickly come too heal ur heart before their is a permanent cut in your heart, anybody that don't give u encouraging word's is dangerous to ur life, anybody that sees an error in your life and won't correct u is dangerous to you as a friend or spouse, see I love people who would rebuke me no matter the situation, because those are true friends that would have ur back even when u are falling.

Me as a person, I would correct u at times even with joking insults, and u would be laughing all through as I correct u, I don't make it look serious but I would make u see the sense and sincerity in what I say, and I have many people who have been changed by that, we must always learn too speak healing word to our partner and their are times that the only thing that can keep u moving is just a word of healing from one u love, that's why is crazy to marry a proud man or woman that treat u as cheat, someone that does not respect u would never accomplish ur full potential and at times when a spouse don't get words of comfort from their partner, they begin to look else where, and this has destroyed many relationship, because the bible says in *Proverbs  18:21 "Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof." That means our tongues can command the outcome of our life's, especially our relationship with anyone either friends, spouse, boss, etc, it is what ever u speak either death or life that u eat the fruit as its outcome, our manner of approach matters a lot, "Be careful with Words".* 

. Proverbs 17:14 Beginning a quarrel is like opening a floodgate, so drop the matter before a dispute breaks out.*

When u are in a relationship, u must learn too drop matters as quickly don't let any thing come in between your happiness in your family, making husband's and wife's fight is one of the strategy the devil uses to delay family blessings that why the bible says in *1 Peter 3:7   Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.* let's learn to shut out quarrels from our relationship quickly, and if u are not yet married and u noticed u are always quarrelling with u spouse, is better u opt out of that relationship on time because where the spirit of the lord is there their is peace.